Oh, it just keeps getting better...

Thursday, April 30, 2009
Last night the boy says he thinks maybe we should postpone the wedding. Maybe it's too much. Maybe we should go to counseling since he just figured out that he's not having any fun planning the wedding. Maybe we need to take the pressure off a bit. Seriously? Three months before the wedding? Three weeks before we have to find a place to live, pack & move? THIS is the time he chooses to have this discussion?! You have to be fucking kidding me!

How is this my life right now?

Sorry ladies, I'm a total downer right now.


Cheap Wife said...

That is totally shitty! If he said that.....you really SHOULD get into therapy quick. You don't wanna get married and have him freak out after. Get into therapy now and talk this out.

I am sorry! :-(

elizabeth said...

ooo! that bites! so sorry to hear. this sounds like a seriously rough patch! not fun. not in the middle of moving and finding a new place. hopefully, it's just slightly cold feet, and getting an objective third party involved can help sort out the issues.

i'm sorry, too. that sucks. hope the skies get clearer soon!

Tina <3 said...

I feel your pain. My fiance decided last week to tell me that he does not want a big wedding anymore. (we are 5 months away and mostly everything has been paid for)
Wedding planning for sure puts strain on a relationship. It will get better, so sorry.

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